Isn't it romantic? Sitting across the table from your Valentine, exchanging knowing glances over appetizers, playing footsie between courses, and shouting at each other over the deafening din of the overcrowded restaurant? "If you’re going out on Valentines day, that’s the one day I suggest you stay in," says Martha Hopkins, author of the aphrodisiac cookbook "InterCourses." "Besides Mothers Day, there is no day that people eat out more." Instead of doing the usual date night out, shake up your routine this Valentine's Day with breakfast in bed or a picnic in your own living room.