Writing to a female inmate is a thoughtful way to assist an incarcerated women in feeling she is valued by society. A female prisoner is often ignored or neglected by her former friends and family. Receiving letters from the outside world can make her feel she has a future upon release. Letters help the inmate keep a positive outlook, and work toward a better life.
Things You'll Need
- Internet access
Choose a reputable inmate pen-pal organization. Disreputable organizations sometimes allow people to take advantage of inmates. Respectable groups do exist.
Browse the directory of inmates that are allowed to receive letters. The listings generally list an inmate's prisoner number, a general description of the type of crime she committed and a photo.
Decide what kinds of crimes you are comfortable hearing about. Your pen-pal will likely discuss what she's done. Use this as a basis for choosing the recipients of your letters.
Follow the guidelines of the organization and the prison when writing to the inmate. The organization usually provides these rules on its website. They commonly include provisions against soliciting details of the crime, sending money, contacting long-lost relatives and beginning a romantic relationship.
Include some information about yourself in your letter. Discuss your hobbies or interests, and respond to some of the interests the inmate lists in her profile. Be patient in waiting for a reply. The inmate is likely anxious to respond, but mail service is frequently slow in prisons.
Tips & Warnings
- Inmates only received printed mail, but organizations often provide an email address you can use. The organization prints your email and mails it to the inmate.
- Do not give the inmate your home address.
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