Summary: Being social at the bar involves striking up light and casual conversations, buying drinks for other people and throwing in comments to other conversations. Be social and make new friends at the bar with tips from an experienced bartender in this free video on bartending.
Micah Bartelme is a professional bartender. Bartelme has tended bar around the world as an international bartender, and he is knowledgeable about thousands of drink recipes.read more
"As a bartender, something I see often is people sitting alone drinking, isolated from everybody else. Is that you? My name's Micah, and I'm going to talk to you about being social at a bar. First things first. You're all going to always want to be kind and courteous to anybody when starting a conversation. You're also going to want to keep things light and casual. Bar topics are very casual conversations. You don't want to bring religions or politics into your conversation with people, cause you got a good chance of offending somebody; most likely they don't share your same viewpoint. You don't want to run the risk of offending anybody and being out on your first try. Secondly, buy drinks for yourself. Nothing like a little social lubricant that is alcohol, and buy drinks for other people. People genuinely appreciate it when you buy drinks for them, and they will probably talk to you. So keep your conversation about what's going on. Perhaps there's always sports playing on TV, you might want to mention something about the big game, the highlight reel, your favorite team, the local team, that's always a good way to start. Throw in your comment if you overhear some conversation. Sit closer to the people that are talking. Don't isolate yourself far in the corner. These are a few strategies to help you be social at a bar. My name is Micah, and this is Being Social in a Bar."
eHow Article: How to Be Social at the Bar