How to Get a Guy

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"Two wrongs don't make a right but how do you get a guy. This is Dr. Paul author of Boomer girls, a boomer woman's guide to men and dating. And the host of ask Dr. Paul. Ladies the more important question is how to get the right guy and two wrongs don't make a right. So lets start from the beginning and really look at what we want. When we determine that, we have to also determine what we don't want. And then you go after it, how to get a guy, it's really not that difficult. Be in the proximity where they are. Men of the type you want to meet. You want to meet a guy that really enjoys hard rock, guess what it's probably a good idea to go to a place where there's hard rock. You want to meet a guy that really is into maybe fishing, maybe you are into fishing yourself or golf, whatever it may be. Think in terms of the activity and then you'll meet the guy. Networking is critically important. You need to ask your guy friends, hey look, I need to meet somebody that is really worthwhile who do you know. Now sometimes guys have to be jilted a little bit to get it into their minds that oh yeah, I remember Charlie over here just got a divorce, you might want to meet Charlie. You got to ask them specifically, you know anybody that recently broke up with someone. Someone who has been divorced. Someone who maybe in a process of divorce, who do you know. Some guy at the office maybe and they will start thinking and when they do, you'll be amazed on how many people they can come up with. But ask specific questions. Don't give hints to other guys about who they know. They will tell you if they understand fully what you want. If you give them directions alright. This is Dr. Paul may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."