How to Be Charming

Video Transcript

"I asked the witch doctor, and he told me what to do. There was a song like that once, but how do you become charming? This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating, and host of Ask Dr. Paul. How to be charming. Now, I'm going to direct this to the men. Men, sometimes we get macho, in the way of charming, and it doesn't impress anybody, except guess who? our buddies. Oh, Bob is really macho. That's nice. That doesn't click with the ladies, and that's probably what you're trying to do, is click with the ladies, right? Being charming is not just a matter of dress. It's also a matter of attitude. It's a matter of smiling. Smiling is kind of an interesting reaction. Ever seen a dog smile? Ok, they do, you know, and people warm up to that, and that's exactly one step on the road to becoming charming. If you smile, your eyes twinkle, and you can make them twinkle by moving your head. People react to that. Women like that. You're open. It gives them a feeling of security with you, because charming means like the snake charmer, the snake moves, and the music plays, and he bobs his head, and that's what you're going to do. You are going to be charming with your body language, with your smile, with that twinkle in the eye. You don't really have to say a whole lot, hello works. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today, be your realities of tomorrow."