How to Define Love

Video Transcript

"I've got you under my skin. I've got you deep in the heart of me. Frank Sinatra Classic. How do you define Love? This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls, A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating." And that's how you define love. When you've got them under your skin. You've got them in your heart and you continue thinking about that person. That's a really good definition of being in love. You wake up in the morning and the first thing you think about is that person. Be it male or female. You go to bed at night, the first thing or last thing you think about is that person. During the day that person's image comes to your mind. You think about what happened the last time you saw that person. Those are pretty basic clues to let you know that you might be in love. I mean there are so many songs that come down like that. "I've got you on my mind" I mean it goes on "You're always on my mind" I mean on and on. So that's exactly what it's all about. Listen to the love songs. If you want to define to yourself if you're in love with this person it's fairly easy, you simply can't get them out of your though pattern. You can't get them out of that thinking. Whatever you do, you happen to bring up the subject of that person. That's what it's all about. This is Dr. Paul, may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."