How to Talk to a Quiet Girl

Video Transcript

"Hi, my name is Jessica Claire and I'm a professional dating coach her in New York City for New York Dating Coach. In this clip, we're going to talk about how to talk to a quiet girl.I think it's important to recognize that everyone has sort of their own pace of life. Their own way of communicating. You know if you come across someone who's particularly shy, or nervous, or just quiet, the best thing to do is to keep to that level. You never want to overwhelm someone or to be really loud and abrasive with someone. It's especially important to not necessarily cue them in to the fact that their quiet. You don't need to constantly mention something you've noticed about someone. So, saying "jeez, you're really quiet" or "pep up, liven up" isn't going to work. I would say your best bet is to be calm and quiet with them. Let them slowly work into a conversation with you. The more you, the more you feel at ease with someone, the more comfortable you make them feel, the better your conversation and flirtation process will be in the end. This is Jessica Claire, New York Dating Coach."