How to Be a Good Husband

Series Summary

Marriage could be considered the ultimate decision. Finding the one person to spend a lifetime with is difficult, especially with so many factors to consider. With divorce rates at an all-time high, the institution of marriage is not viewed as seriously as it once was. In this free video series, get relationship and marriage advice from an experienced marriage analyst. He discusses how to be a good husband and a good wife, how to choose a husband and wife and how to create a successful marriage. He also talks about rekindling the spark in a marriage by dating your husband, how to know if you will marry a boyfriend or girlfriend and knowing when a marriage is over. Finally, get advice on loving your wife, marrying a millionaire and resolving marriage conflict.

Video Transcript

"Working our relationship skills. Specifically we're going to learn today. How to be a good husband. I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. What is the best way to become a good husband. Basically you're going to have to tell your, this conversation and have it with your wife because it's really going to be particular to her personalty. There may be some things that she really likes or wants that are special to her. That makes her feel good as a individual. For example she may want you to cook dinner for her one day a week. She may want you to manage all the household finances or help out with the children. You know on particular days. Give her an evening out with her friends or just give her some quiet time. So you really need to understand those. Those interaction fundamentals that are really key for her. In addition the five key attributes dimensions of relationship. Love, trust, respect, friendship, communication all those are real key and if you really need to understand those more deeply. Then I would suggest that you attend a Family Resources or similar workshop, marriage education. Actually Dr. John Gray has some good advice here. You may recall him from The Venus and Mars books. Very worthwhile. There are some little things that you could be doing also. To help spice up the relationship. Are you buying your wife chocolates? From time to time. Are you buying her flowers? Are you sending her a text message at work? I miss you. I need you. Rubbing her feet. Putting gas in her car. These are all things that say. Hey, I'm with you I'm paying attention. Your the most important person in my life. I love you. But you also have to come to is some agreements and compromise. For example you know in the bedroom. You may have to have the conversation that we're going to have less sex than I'm use to and probably a lot more than you use to. But we need to come to an agreement. So it really becomes an issue of communicating. Not compromising but on agreeing how to share some of these relationship dimensions. That are really important and key. You need to be prepared to give but if you give you'll ultimately will receive. There are many ways that you can be a good a great and perfect husband. But it really need to be something that's special and important for your wife and you got to talk with her. About that and fine out what she wants first and then execute the plan. I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Relationships for life."