How to Find a Boyfriend

Video Transcript

"No one wants to go through life alone and today we're going to be talking about how to find a boyfriend. Hi I'm Joe Cuenco, I'm a Family Resources; and just how do you find a boyfriend? Well before you can answer that question, you need to ask yourself what is it that you're looking for. What are your interests, long-term, short-term and who basically do you want to be with possibly the rest of your life? Are you someone that's into sports? Are you somebody that's into the arts, theater and what are your interests? so you really have to define what your common interests are in terms of a partner and then really make yourself available in those venues. You need to join associations, you need to join clubs for example; if you're looking for somebody who love to play golf, join a golf club. If selling is your thing, join the yacht club. Or, if you're just interested and perhaps somebody who likes to attend theater, well then, hey you know where to go. Some folks are very successful meeting people at church or perhaps another option would be take salsa lessons. There might be an option for you to meet a boyfriend there. The last place that you want to meet somebody is at a bar. The hookup is not the way to meet somebody for a long term relationship. If that's what you're interested in, then take that route, but I wouldn't suggest that for a long-term relationship. Get yourself online, develop a face book profile, a myspace profile, that's a way to get out there and engage some of your friends, your friends know who you are, what your interests are and perhaps they can help you connect with somebody that has similar interests with you. So, you need to network. There's lots of association and lots of meetings that will have you an opportunity to get to know other people in the community. You can do some volunteering things. But, you have to improve yourself and your self confidence and therefore that will allow you to radiate that to a potential boyfriend and help you find that perfect boyfriend. This is how we find a perfect boyfriend, my name is Joe Cuenco of Family Resources Relationships For Life."