Spying on a spouse is not recommended because trust is such an important part of any relationship. Find out how to hire a private investigator to discover information about a possible affair with advice from a dating coach in this free video on relationship issues.
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Hi I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and dating coach, and owner of NY Dating Coach, here in New York City. In this clip we'll talk about spying on your spouse. Now, first off, I don't really recommend that. Trust is a huge part of a relationship, so if you're feeling that you don't trust him, first ask him about some things. And really confront in a gentle way your insecurities in what's going on. But, if you feel like he's having an affair, or you feel like he's being dishonest, and you really feel like you need to check it out for yourself, then yeah, OK, go ahead and do it. I don't recommend really hiding in the bushes, but the most affective way is to hire a private investigator. I know it can be a little expensive, but if you truly feel that he's having an affair, then if you get proof of that, than there's no way he can lie, and back out of it. You could certainly go to places that you know that he's at, and sit at another table with your friends and kind of keep an eye, or spy. Or, you can send a friend that he doesn't know to keep an eye on him, and see what he's doing. This is Donna Barnes, from New York City.