Most Popular Wedding Readings


In addition to the opportunity for those close to you to participate without being attendants, readings allow you to blend faiths and cultures. When the bride and groom practice different religions, celebrants can alternate readings from both faiths. When one partner comes from another country, readings in both languages keep foreign guests involved in the ceremony. Selections fall into four categories: scripture, poetry, philosophical and media.

Scripture Passages

  • One or all of the readings in religious marriage ceremonies comes from a sacred book. Christian couples commonly choose passages that stress love and its importance. According to Rev. Phil Landers, a Chicago officiant, 1 Corinthians, chapter 13 -- "Love is patient and kind" -- is the most popular scripture reading. Together For Life reports most Catholic couples choose Matthew 5:1-12a, the Beatitudes, for a Gospel reading. The most common passage from the book of Psalms is 33:12, which reads, "The earth is full of the goodness of the Lord."

Verses on Love

  • Meaningful selections need not come from religious texts. Ancient Greeks introduced poetry as part of the wedding program. Lord Byron's "She Walks in Beauty," Elizabeth Barrett Browning's "How Do I Love Thee?" and "I carry your heart with me" by E.E. Cummings are common choices according to Plan Your Perfect Wedding website. Shakespeare works, especially Sonnet 116, appear on lists of most popular wedding poetry as do verses by Pablo Neruda.

Philosophical Prose

  • Like poetry, excerpts of prose lend a less formal air to a wedding ceremony than scripture readings. They also make an acceptable choice for venues in which religious texts might not be appropriate, such as courthouses. Choices include selections from Margery Williams' children's book "The Velveteen Rabbit"; the Apache wedding blessing; "Gift From the Sea" by Ann Morrow Lindbergh; Khalil Gabran's "The Prophet"; and "The Bridge Across Forever" by Richard Bach.

Lyrics and Lines

  • Film buffs and music lovers have chosen lyrics from favorite songs and adapted lines from films for wedding readings. The words to Nat King Cole's "L.O.V.E." hold meaning for some couples, while others prefer John Lennon's "Grow Old With Me" or Rascal Flatts' "Bless the Broken Road," according to officiant Jeff Petersen. Adapting or quoting romantic lines from films the couple enjoys makes them special reading choices. For example, proposals from "The Runaway Bride" and "When Harry Met Sally" join dialogue from "The Notebook" on lists of popular Hollywood-sourced readings.

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