What Qualities Do People Find in a Good Friend?
Finding a good friend is often a challenge because it is hard to determine what a good friend actually is. Fortunately, there are qualities to look for in a true friend that make it easier to find a real friend. The qualities of a good friend are universal qualities that determine whether the friend is true or the friendship is a sham.
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Loyalty
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Loyalty is a necessary part of friendship, or any relationship, for that matter. A good friend is loyal to the friendship. Being loyal means avoiding gossip and paying attention to spoken words. While friends might sometimes feel envious or angry, a good friend won't let a situation like a disagreement result in gossiping behind his or her back or saying negative comments about his or her friends.
Generosity
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The quality of giving and generosity is a sign of a real friend. Even when someone has little available to give, there is the willingness to put out a hand and give whatever is possible. This quality is the sign of someone worth being friends with because it shows a generous heart and mind.
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Understanding
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A real friend is someone who listens and is understanding. When a real friend does not understand something, he or she will ask about the situation to gain understanding. This quality ensures that there is someone who will give support, even if he or she doesn't agree, and will understand the reasons for any situation.
Honest
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A real friend is honest and tells the truth, even if it might be hurtful. A real friend won't tell a lie to make someone feel better, instead, a true friend will tell the truth and give advice on the situation. For example, if a dress really looks terrible, a real friend will state that it does not flatter and then give advice on a dress that will look better.
Appreciative of Differences
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A real friend does not want a clone. Instead, he or she will appreciate when the friend is different and disagrees. This not only makes the friendship more interesting because friends can give different viewpoints on various subjects, but it also shows that the friend cares for the person as an individual.
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FRIENDSHIP is so difficult to build-up, it makes me stress : D.
