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Step 1
Examine your conversations. Does she include you in her plans when she talks about the future?
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Step 2
Consider whether you're both traveling along the same pathway in life. Are you heading in the same direction? Do you share common interests and values?
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Step 3
Think about the compatibility of your goals. Do you both want the same things out of life, such as a family, kids, stability, money, careers? Are you interested in her work and hobbies? Does she seem interested in your job and pastimes, even she doesn't share your passion for them?
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Step 4
Evaluate how she treats you in private and in public. Does she brag about you to others? Does she seem proud to be with you, or does she avoid being seen with you in public places? Does she stick around when you're having a bad day, or does she disappear when you need her the most?
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Step 5
Evaluate how she treats your friends and family. Is she willing to be nice to your friends and family, even if she doesn't like them?
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Step 6
Assess her honesty and trustworthiness. Does she do what she says she's going to do? Do you feel you can trust her and depend on her?
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Step 7
Think about all the reasons why you really like her. Remember that lust fades, but genuine compatibility endures.
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Step 8
Communicate with your girlfriend and discuss these issues to figure out if you're both meant for each other.
Comments
cheekeybabe said
on 1/3/2007 thanku
cheekeybabe said
on 1/3/2007 i am agirl and me and my girlfriend read this site and it really helped but we are having a wedding in private we are so excited and we are looking forward to after the wedding as we are movin in together and getting a new double bed to share i am really excited
Anonymous said
on 6/30/2006 You know you are going to be with that person for the rest of your life if no matter how hard times are, no matter what happens in life she/he will stick by your side. Life throws a few curve balls at you, and if she/he's committed and serious, then sticking by your side just becomes a natural response.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 The first girl is the kind that likes you for popularity. The second kind likes you for your looks. The third kind likes you for your money. The forth kind is the one you hold on to and die for. That's the kind of girl that likes you for who you are and isn't embarrassed to be with you. When you feel a big difference, out of all those other girls, that's the girl that you know can't be replaced. I am with a girl that I absolutely adore and will love forever. She is my future and my everything.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 If there is something that you don't like about your partner, decide whether you will be able to live with that forever. People will never change completely, and the stresses of life and marriage will only intensify their annoyances.