How to Get a Man to Notice You

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Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Step1
1) Talk to him. Say something that will get a good response from him. Casually say something like "hey, what are you working on?" or "that's a nice drawing. where did you learn to draw like that?"
Step2
2) Keep the conversation going by telling something about yourself related to the topic. (NOTE: Dont keep talking. let him get a word in.)
Step3
3) Repeat the steps above until you have made good friends with this man. Start having more 'deep' converstations.
Step4
4) Ask him if he would like to join you to something new/fun/exciting: "Hey, i'm going to try out the new cafe down the street. care to join me?" or " hey, would you like to come with me to the rock-climbing arena sometime?"
Step5
5) If your offer is declined, stop asking him for a while. But don't stop talking to him. Try to keep friends until a later time.

Tips & Warnings

  • 1) Be yourself. A guy doesn't hate anything more than a fake.
  • 2) Be patient. It's a virtue, you know!
  • 3) Get to know a few things about him before you talk to him.
  • 1) Dont start off too strong: he may get the wrong impression.

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Lousson said

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on 8/26/2007 I agree with the comment about repeating a guy's name... it really works! But I like to remark that I am very attracted to intelligent and modest women. I disagree with the comment about how they should 'flaunt' their assets, but rather should flaunt a degree of intellect and moral introspection. That means the world to me. I fell for this gal who was working behind this small bar, and she was only wearing jeans and this old looking woolly jumper!

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on 2/26/2007 once you have takled and he smiles at you and says hi to you in front of anyone..then tell him your feelings you will be glad you let it out..he will be so happy some one is interested in him..when he talks pay attention look into his eyes..if you know something about that share it with him..if you dont understand something in class have him help you..dont over power him or boss him around treat him equally..

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on 2/26/2007 ask for his number..just to talk its ok to talk to a guy just as a friend..he'll love that you want to connect with him..

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on 2/26/2007 you should deff laugh and as you walk by him..but only if your with your friends..if your laughing at nothing he may think your retarted..if he looks when you laugh smile at him then turn back to your friends and keep the conversation..dont change the subject he may think you forgot what yoyu were talking about..he will remember that smile..

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on 9/23/2006 After you have done various things to get his attention, have attended events he is at, seen him in various places and you both can initiate conversation with no awkwardness, attend an event he is at and don't hang around him. Make sure you do something else, with other people (maybe other guys).

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