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How to Make Yourself Irresistible to the Opposite Sex

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What makes someone irresistible to the opposite sex? Transform yourself into an object of desire that no one can resist.

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Cashmere Sweaters
  • Pashmina Wraps
  • Cologne
  • Perfume
  1. Step 1

    Appeal to all the senses. Choose clothing with soft fabrics that invite the sense of touch, wear fragrances that entice the sense of smell, speak with a sensuous voice and use words that are pleasant to hear, and maintain a well-groomed appearance that is pleasing to the eye.

  2. Step 2

    Maintain a positive outlook toward life. Who wants to be around a person who is full of gloom and doom?

  3. Step 3

    Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally. Emphasize your best features while downplaying undesirable traits.

  4. Step 4

    Project confidence without intimidating others. Know and believe in yourself without being a know-it-all.

  5. Step 5

    Be original. Your differences from others may be the very things that make you irresistible to the opposite sex. Don't be a carbon copy of someone else.

  6. Step 6

    Learn how to make members of the opposite sex feel good about themselves by taking an interest in their lives and aspirations.

  7. Step 7

    Leave a little something to the imagination. Don't bare all or tell all immediately. An air of mystery can create greater interest in a person.

Tips & Warnings
  • Your appearance and body language can catch someone's attention ' but irresistibility comes from your ability to sustain a person's interest.
  • Remember that everyone has different tastes and preferences, with different definitions of irresistibility.

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clancey said

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Kamara said

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on 3/27/2008 as a girl i will tell guys right now; if you like a chick, become her friend...not a best fiend, but some one she can turn to for fun, or help. once you have gained her trust and she has gained yours, tell her that "you think your starting to look at her in a different way." by telling her this she now knows how you feel, and more than likley she feels the same. one good way to tell if she likes you is if she always find a reason to touch you, or holds your gaze for a while after the conversation is over. or if she makes eye contact and just starts to smile or laugh...or both. but dont be so shy that the oppertunity passes you by, some girls will move on no matter how much they might like you, they just get tired of waiting for you to balls up.

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Anonymous said

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on 1/12/2007 Be yourself. Don't supplicate (look up the word in the dictionary if you have to). That means no buying her stuff and displaying the fact that you place her above you. Make sure she knows she has to prove herself to you and you have standards she must meet. Control the situation.

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Anonymous said

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on 8/8/2006 Don't be afraid of the awkwardness that comes at the beggining of the realtionship. Be straightforward with what you want by saying things like "I need a hug!!!!" (Note: This works especially well when you leave something special in her hands like a flower or a teddy bear. Come to think of it, little surprises like a note in a book he/she is reading is sweet too.)

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