How to Get a Girl to Like You When She Thinks You're Weird or Creepy

A girl usually will stay away from creepy guys.

If a girl finds you creepy or weird, she will often ignore you. She may go out of her way to avoid talking to you or coming in close contact with you because she doesn't feel comfortable around you. If the girl that you like has gotten a weird or creepy impression of you, it can make dating her a bit of a challenge. Although there is no guarantee that your love interest will change her mind about the way she feels, there are a few things that you can try to change her mind.

Instructions

1. Evaluate your behavior. Make a list of things that you do around her that she may consider creepy. For example, she may find your body language creepy. If you are always touchy feely or always in her personal space, back off and give her space. Avoid leering at her because this can feel stalkerish to a girl.

2. Ask a friend to watch the way you act when you are around her. Ask your friend to look for things that appear creepy or weird to others. Have your friend make a list. Compare your friend's list with the one you made earlier to see if there are some creepy or weird things that you missed. Avoid doing any of these things the next time you are in her presence so she knows that your behavior is changing.

3. Compliment her. Redeem yourself by flattering the girl. Tell her that you like a piece of jewelry she is wearing or compliment her on an article of clothingt she is wearing. If you used to tease her before, she will be surprised that you gave her a sincere compliment.

4. Act like a gentleman around her. Forget about teasing her or acting silly around her. If you want her to see you as a good guy, think of her needs. For example, if she missed a day of school, offer to share your notes with her. If she is feeling under the weather, ask if there is anything you can do.

5. Talk to the girl as if she were just a friend. Ask her about her interests. Avoid talking too fast or talking too much. Give the girl a chance to express her opinions on topics.

6. Respect her decision not to interact with you. If you have tried changing the way you act around this girl and she still finds you creepy or weird give it up. She will only feel intimidated and uncomfortable if you try to force your way into her life.

References

• Guy Panky: How to Get Girls to Like You at First Sight