How to Find Your Niche in Life
Finding your niche in life means different things to different people. For some, it means finding something that makes them happy, such as a new job or a new career path. For others, it means finding their place in life. Finding this isn't always easy because most people are pulled in different directions, including taking care of their children and spouse and putting their own needs and feelings on the back burner. Once you find your niche, though, you'll likely feel better about yourself and those around you.
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Make a list of your talents, no matter how big or small. Look at all aspects of your life to find your list, including your personal and professional relationships. You may discover that you're good at listening to others, empathizing with the situations of others, good at music or good at taking care of your kids.
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Evaluate yourself, looking for your abilities and what you enjoy. Terry Mizrahi of Hunter College suggests looking at your own religious and personal beliefs when attempting to find your niche. This is different from your talent list because while you might be good at something, that doesn't necessarily mean you like it. For example, if you work 40-plus hours a week in an office, you may like taking hikes, camping and doing other outdoor activities on the weekends.
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Practice positive thinking and be optimistic. Keep reminding yourself on a daily basis about what you're good at and what you like, instead of focusing on the bad things. Tell yourself frequently that you're working on finding your spot in life and that you'll eventually find it.
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Listen to that little voice inside your head, instead of what others say. Just because your parents wanted you to become a doctor doesn't mean you can't look for other careers and other job opportunities. The only way to find your niche is by doing what you want and what you like, instead of focusing on what makes other people around you happy. The University of Maryland, Baltimore County published a story about a former student who found her niche simply by deciding to help a friend and turning that into a charitable organization.
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Find ways to take part in the things that make you happy and to learn more. It's never too late to start over again. According to Dr. Angela Londoño-McConnell of Your Mind Your Body, not all jobs require that you go back to school. Look for internships, apprenticeships and other entry-level positions in different fields. Explain to potential employers and teachers why you're a good fit and how your past experiences led you to your current position.
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Tips & Warnings
Try volunteering with different groups and organizations to see how you feel working and helping in that field. It also gives you additional experience when you start applying for jobs later.
