How to Use Divorce Mediators Compared to Attorneys

Mediators are trained legal specialists who assist clients in the process of reaching a mutually amiable agreement without intervention of the court. In the area of family law, divorce mediators assist couples in quickly and without much conflict dividing their assets. For those couples who are still able to civilly divorce, mediators are an excellent way to ensure all assets and responsibilities are handled without the court's adversarial intervention.

Instructions

1. Contact a mediator and schedule an initial appointment. Most mediators will offer a free consultation meeting to explain contract terms and a mediator's role.

2. Schedule the mediation appointment at a time that is convenient for both parties.

3. Determine and agree upon all the necessary divisions of assets and, if necessary, the child custody situation.

4. Obtain a written copy of the mediation settlement agreement from the mediator. Both parties will need to sign the agreement and have their signatures notarized for the sake of accuracy during the court proceedings.

5. File or have the mediator file the necessary divorce paperwork. Whether the mediator can file the paperwork depends upon the individual state, so be sure to verify the local laws to ensure proper filing.

Tips & Warnings

• Mediation is not for everyone. For those parties who are unable to effectively and civilly communicate, or for those with complex legal issues such as prenuptial agreements or an unequal bargaining ability, separate attorneys should be sought out.