How to Attract Men After a Divorce
Life after a divorce is a challenging time for women who throw themselves back into the dating pool. It might have been decades since they were last in that position. However, with the proper amount of confidence, the search in the dating pool could be short.
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Take care of yourself and look your best. You are not doing this to show men that you still have a great body. You are doing this for yourself. If you look your best, you will feel better about yourself. When you feel good about yourself, others will want to be around you. Taking care of yourself means eating the right foods--white meat chicken, fish, fresh vegetables and fruit--and staying away from sugars, fats and fried foods. Exercise so you feel stronger and more athletic.
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Smile. You might have a slew of problems as a result of your divorce, including financial ones. You might be worried about the future and your children. Those worries won't disappear because you wear a veil of worry. When you go out to meet people, put a smile on and try to enjoy yourself. Enjoyment is contagious.
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Find new activities to do and new topics to talk about. When you have been married a long time, you likely have old patterns. Try something new. Take up parachute jumping. Take a hike that challenges you. Take a vacation to a place you have never been. You'll have new things to talk about and that will make you interesting.
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Don't talk about your former husband and how terrible he is. A person who spends time talking about how rotten her ex-spouse was is sure to turn off potential friends. Remember, you are looking ahead.
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Be honest with yourself and the people you meet. One of the things that divorce teaches many people--especially women who have been lied to or cheated on--is that there is no angle in trying to pretend everything is fine when it is not. If you like someone, tell them. If you don't like them, don't waste your time. Being honest is being courageous.
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