Things You'll Need:
- Paper
- Pens
- Dictionary
- Personal Computer
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Step 1
First, think about the person for whom you are writing the sympathy card. Achieve success writing sympathy messages by planning out exactly what you want to say. Your message should be heart-felt and simple. Remember your personal experience with the deceased and their family. Document specific ways that the person affected your life when they were alive.
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Step 2
Second, open a dictionary and start flipping through the pages. Look for words that will enable you to express your sympathetic feelings. Write down words that show much you will miss the person who died and how much you feel for the family. Search online for words, phrases and songs that describe the special times you shared with the person.
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Step 3
Finally, begin writing a sympathy message on your computer. Edit it over and over until you have created a special and unique message for the family of the deceased. Sign the card and let the family know that you are available if they need help in the future.
















Comments
urbanchristmas said
on 11/9/2009 This is always difficult for some people, excellent advice for writing a sympathy message. 5*
nancycarol said
on 9/4/2009 What great tips on How To Write Heartfelt Sympathy Messages. I never would have thought of the dictionary thing, but sure will use it next time. *5R
ladybella said
on 8/3/2009 Great article!
hollywin said
on 7/27/2009 Yes. I like the idea of writing your own sympathy cards, more personal than something store bought. 5*
kimmij said
on 7/12/2009 Excellent advice on a subject that's difficult for so many. 5*