How to Write a Speech for a Candle Lighting Cermony

A candle-lighting ceremony is a special way to honor someone, whether in celebration of an accomplishment or in memory of a life well-lived. Taking part in such a ceremony by providing the speech is a special responsibility.

Instructions

1. Think about the reason for the ceremony. Candle-lighting ceremonies can be part of many different events, from a bar or bat mitzvah to a wedding to a memorial service for a loved one. The reason for the ceremony should be the heart of your speech.

2. Find a good quote. Use the Scriptures, sacred writings, poetry, song lyrics or the words of people you admire. Don't use a very long quotation; something between one and three sentences is good for an opening to your speech. The quotation should be fitting for the ceremony; don't use something that is humorous or offbeat for a very serious ceremony.

3. Use the quotation as a steppingstone into your own thoughts about the ceremony. There might be a particular word or phrase that stands out to you; use that word or phrase as a way to express your feelings, thoughts and words of encouragement.

4. Get past writer's block by brainstorming. If you are just stuck on what to say, then grab an empty piece of paper and start jotting down words or phrases that relate to the ceremony or the person being honored. Use mind-mapping, bubbles, draw pictures or cartoons; use anything just to get your brain working. You can fill up a page or two in no time, and then go back and pick out what really fits best and convert that into a speech.

5. Keep it brief. You don't have to drag on and on to make your point or express yourself clearly. Give yourself time to make two or three main points. Express each main point in three to six sentences as a guideline. Your entire speech should probably be around five minutes.

6. Use plain language. Making a speech does not mean you have to use four-syllable words, unless that's your normal style. Talk plainly. People will understand you, you will be more comfortable, and you will get your point across without confusing yourself or anyone else.

7. Close by summarizing what you just said. Simply restate your main points in slightly different words.