How to Strike up a conversation with a stranger
Conversing with a total stranger can seem like a daunting task, especially for those who are shy. But to create new friendships or work-related networks, you may need to start a conversation with someone you don't know. When conversing with a stranger, make sure to keep the conversation polite but interesting. If your mind draws a blank, here are some tips that can help.
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Be approachable. Be pleasant and have a smile on your face when you go to speak to someone you don't know. The more approachable you seem, the more inclined the person will be to talk to you.
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Talk about a common topic for the both of you. For example, if you are at a party, ask the person how he or she knows the host. If you are sharing the same plate of food, ask what he or she thinks of the meal.
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Do not complain, especially when it is your first time speaking to someone. Keep the conversation and mood light.
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Ask questions that can't be answered with one word. If the person does answer you with a single word, ask a follow-up question to have the person expand on his or her answer. This shows that you are interested.
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React to what the person tells you. Laugh at a joke or show interest when the person tells you a fact. This will make people more comfortable with you and will allow them to open up about their lives.
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Make eye contact. Avoiding a person's eyes will make you seem shy and uncomfortable, and makes the other person uncomfortable, too.
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