How You Can Spy On Your Boyfriend (Your Man)

Think your man is chceating? Catch him in the act by spying on him.

If you think your boyfriend is cheating, it's not enough to assume that he is. Instead of being paranoid and anxious, use that energy to discreetly spy on him. By spying on your man, you will know the truth about his behavior and your curiosity about his fidelity will be sated. If he is cheating, you'll have hard evidence to back up your claims if you decide to confront him about it. If he's not cheating, you'll have peace of mind.

Things You'll Need

• Cell phone
• Spyware

Instructions

1. Ask your boyfriend out for lunch dates out of the blue. Let him off the hook the first time if he can't make it, but if he declines continuously and his excuses are ridiculous, give him a surprise visit.

2. Get a cell phone similar to his and learn your way around it. If you are versed in how your phone functions, it'll be easier for you to look through his phone to see who he has been calling and texting.

3. Install cell phone spy software on his phone. Some cell phone spy software will allow you to look at his call history, his text message history and track him via GPS. If you think your man is having an online tryst, download software that allows you to snoop on his Internet habits and install it on his computer.

4. Purchase professional spy equipment, such as tiny video cameras and microphones. Hide them in inconspicuous areas in the bedroom, living room and any other places you think he might entertain a paramour.

Tips & Warnings

• Remain cool and calm. Don't let him know that you're planning on spying on him. If you do, he'll be more cautious if he finds out you're suspicious about his relationships with other people.

• Ready yourself for the unknown. If your instincts tell you something's wrong and he's really cheating on you, you better make sure that you won't collapse once you see the truth. It's inevitably painful, but it's better to live in truth than in doubt.

• You might catch your man cheating. If you do, don't explode or get violent and do something you'll regret later.

References

• All Women's Talk: 11 Signs of Cheating
• Cell Phone Spying and Cell Phone Spyware
• Spying.net
• Spy Gadgets