How to Keep a Friendship Healthy
Friendships add richness and meaning to people's lives. Friends and networks of friends are valuable sources of enjoyment, companionship and support during difficult times. However, friendships must be maintained. It's easy to think a loved one will always be there, regardless of the situation, but it is also true that nobody likes to be taken for granted. Learn to keep a friendship healthy by following simple steps and using common sense.
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Schedule in time for friends. Time is one of the most important things people can give to their friendships. Work, school, children and even hobbies can be time-consuming. Inviting a friend or friends to spend even an hour together makes a positive and lasting impact.
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Remember that support goes both ways. When a friend is a good listener, it's easy to keep talking and forget she may have problems, too. Take the time to ask your friend how she's doing. Let her know you are interested in hearing about what is going on in her life.
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Establish boundaries and respect so you don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable, which can compromise the friendship. This helps to avoid resentment, anger and communication problems.
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Agree to disagree. Friends may not always see eye to eye, but regardless of the outcome, handle disagreements with respect. Let your friend know that even if you think he is wrong about a topic, you still care about him.
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Avoid unhealthy competition. Playing a game of basketball together or making a friendly bet can be engaging. But when winning becomes a priority, friendships get strained. Remember that your friend wants to have fun with you, not face a competitor.
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