How to Develop a Positive Personality That Others Can't Resist


Imagine walking into a room full of people and notice a change of atmosphere as everyone in the room fell silent. Their eyes are fixed at your direction and you can read from their faces how glad they are to see you. Does this sound like a dream or a scenario too good to be true? It's hard to explain this phenomenon but there are really people who have positive personalities. There is an aura of positive energy in their presence that draws people to them like magnet. This personality can be developed and it is yours to attain if you practice the following steps diligently everyday:

Things You'll Need

  • Determination
  • Self-confidence
  • Get in touch with your true self by understanding your strengths and weaknesses and maximizing your full potential as a person. There are various personality tests you can take to give you more understanding about yourself and you can do this online for free. Do a lot of reflection about who you are and be willing to change yourself for the better to help you achieve your goal.

  • Be an emphatic listener. Everybody has their share of challenges and triumphs in life and most people are attracted to someone who listen to them talk. The easiest way to gain other people's confidence is to hear them out and sympathize what they are going through. Remember that the other person sharing their thoughts could tell if you are truly listening to them. Use positive feedback and maintain eye contact while being in their company. This gives them confidence and trust in your presence and these two elements are vital in human relationships.

  • Smile and laugh a lot. There is no better thing to feel than to see someone's smiles and hear someone's hearty laugh especially in a really tough day. It is a proven fact that doses of smile and laughter in a day inspire us, improve health, and benefit both the giver and receiver. If you are a smiling person, you project a happy disposition and people are naturally attracted to you. Who would desire the company of a grouchy person over a happy one? Not I and neither do you.

  • Always be glad and ready to lend a helping hand. A person's actions mirror the contents of his heart. Find every opportunity to help others. If you help somebody no matter how small it is, it brings about good feelings and paves the way for the receiver to like and respect you in return.

  • Be profuse with giving genuine compliments to others. Our tongue has the power to heal or destroy and curse or bless someone. A person who has an attractive, positive personality always has something nice and pleasant to say to others. Every human being is dying to hear good things about himself and the person who makes him feel good and appreciated is likely the person he loves to be in company with.

Tips & Warnings

  • Developing a positive personality takes time. Do not be in a hurry. Set your own pace and reward yourself with every small accomplishment you make along the way.

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