How to Be a Guy Magnet

Do you ever wonder what the “popular” girls have that draws guys around them like a magnet? Being a guy magnet is easy if you approach the task in a more broad way. Being happy in life and involved in the world around you makes you a natural magnet for guys—and girlfriends as well! People like to be around those who shine, and “shining” is just part of being optimistic and confident.

Instructions

1. Be clean. Let’s face it, grooming and hygiene are important all the time, but especially when you are trying to attract positive attention. Shower daily and be sure your clothes are clean and odor-free. Ask your friends if they have any advice for you regarding your hair style and clothes. Update your look if need be.

2. Be natural. Don’t try to fake it. Keep the make-up to a minimum. If you have acne, use a product like Proactive to clear up your skin so you don’t wear too much foundation. Use flattering eye makeup that is age-appropriate and doesn’t detract from your natural beauty. If you wear glasses you can go a little heavier, but try to go somewhere like Sephora for a make-up lesson to help you get started.

3. Be confident. Although shyness can be cute, when it comes to being a guy magnet, there isn’t a lot of wiggle room here. You should meet a boy’s eyes when you talk. Hold your head up and walk straight when going from class to class. Don’t pass messages through other people. If you have something to say to someone, say it to his face. That will let guys know you are confident.

4. Be happy. My mother always told me that if you look like you are having fun, people will just want to be around you. She was right! We all have bad days, but be sure to smile and be positive overall. Guys want to be around girls who are upbeat and fun, and they will naturally gravitate to you if you are a happy person.

5. Enjoy your friends and interests. Don’t try to meet guys. Let them come to you naturally while you are enjoying your friends, sports and hobbies. Go about your life in a happy way, and the guys who share your interests (and with whom you’d be a good match) will find you.

6. Don’t try to “conquer” a number of guys to build your self-esteem. By being positive in nature, upbeat and interested in the world around you, you will automatically draw guys to you … like a magnet!

Tips & Warnings

• Be healthy. Good health is an attractant as old as time itself, so be sure to exercise, drink plenty of water and eat well.

• Don't try to be like anyone other than yourself. Being a guy magnet doesn't mean you have to be like the "popular" crowd.