How to Attract Guys

You are number ONE!!!

Every woman wants to know how to attract the man of her dreams. If this is your goal, this article will tell you the dos and don'ts of how to attract guys. Have you spent a lot of Valentine's Days alone? Do you wonder why you are always the friend and never the girlfriend, or worse yet, always a bridesmaid and never a bride? Well read on, my friend, you're not cursed and you're not unlucky, you just need to get the right advice!

Instructions

1. Believe in yourself. No matter what they say, every man worth having is attracted to a self-confident woman. You have to believe that you are the catch of his life. If you believe this inside and you show it without, he won't be able to help but fall deeply in love with you. This is a secret that it takes many women a long, long time to catch on to. Don't be one of them. Believe in yourself and do whatever it takes to develop the self-confidence you may lack. Go on a diet, develop a hobby, make some friends, go shopping! Confidence is sexy and they will be drawn to you like bees to honey if you have it in abundance.

2. Be charming. Charm goes a long way. Every man likes to be drawn in like a fish on a line. Be selective about those you draw in. It may seem mean to shut someone down when they want you, but in the end, you'll be much happier if you draw in only those who truly deserve you. Charm is the ability to break out in a genuine smile when it will be most advantageous to do so. Charm is the ability to feel out a crowd and work it by making people laugh and smile the moment you walk into the room. Charm isn't a special talent or how many languages you speak, it's something every woman possesses, like a flame that can be nurtured until it grows. Don't wait for a man to light your fire. Light it yourself and they will come, like moths to a flame.

3. Develop a sense of humor. Everyone loves to laugh. Laughter is good for the soul. You don't have to have a library of stupid jokes to break out at just the right moment. True comedy is spontaneous. You can find humor in everyday moments if you are truly happy. Find something to smile about every day and before long, you will find things to laugh at. Nobody likes a sourpuss. Even though everyone has their tough days, men are attracted to a woman who seems truly happy so that they can try to make her happier while knowing they are not responsible for her happiness.

4. Be strong. Strength is comes from within and you will be able to overlook the mistakes of your past and brush them off like dust. If you allow yourself to become embittered by all that life has "done" to you, it will show on your face, the way that you walk and your general demeanor. Be strong and you will attract the strong man that you want. No man wants to hear about all the ugly past boyfriends you've had. So, do what you need to to get over it, move on and move ahead. You'll be glad you did!