How to Be Popular in School

The best kind of popularity is when people admire you for who you naturally are. The way to achieve this kind of admiration is to put your best foot forward at all times. In school, students worry so much about what others think about them instead of what they think about themselves. A healthy level of self-esteem will become visible and attract positive energy from others.

Instructions

1. Look good. First impressions are important. Even if you are beautiful, interesting, creative, and fun on the inside, no one will get take the time to get to know your personality unless they first feel drawn toward your image. Being well-groomed with good personal hygiene and at least a basic sense of style are the minimum requirements for looking good.

2. Be confident. If you don’t like yourself, no one else will either. In order to be popular you must believe in yourself and be confident. If you find yourself feeling low or down on yourself, think of a few qualities that you value about yourself. Maybe you have a clever sense of humor, are musically talented, or are great at a sport. Remind yourself of these qualities and walk tall and with pride.

3. Be friendly. An old saying goes like this, “To have a friend, you must be a friend”, and this is quite true. Most people want to have friends and be liked, but in order to do so, you must make an effort to be friendly to strangers. Even if you don’t know them or are new, the most basic pleasantries such as remembering a name or showing a smile can go a very long way.

4. Get involved. Find activities that are interesting to you and get involved. If you are naturally athletic or enjoy the outdoors, go out for a sporting team each season. If you are musical, join the band or get people together for a jam session. Finding a smaller group of people that share your same interests can make it easier to find friends that appreciate you for your unique qualities.

5. Have fun. Everyone wants to be around someone who seems to be having fun. Attract other fun-loving people by being one yourself. The best way to do this is to relax, enjoy yourself and the others around you, and keep a positive outlook on life.

Tips & Warnings

• Control the urge to judge people. Your new best friend tomorrow may be the person you look down on today. Keep an open mind.

• Beware of gossip. Talking about others behind their backs may come back to you in the form of rumors and embarrassment.