How to Introduce People

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Want to meet new people and improve your social graces? Here's how to make proper introductions at parties, dinners and other social situations.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • Etiquette Books
  • Breath Fresheners

Step1
Introduce individuals to each other using both first and last names.
Step2
If you're introducing someone who has a title'a doctor, for example'include the title as well as the first and last names in the introduction.
Step3
Introduce the younger or less prominent person to the older or more prominent person, regardless of the sex of the individuals. (However, if a considerable age difference lies between the two, it is far more courteous to make introductions in deference to age, regardless of social rank.) For example: 'Arthur Prefect, I'd like you to meet Dr. Gertrude Smith.'
Step4
If the person you are introducing has a specific relationship to you, make the relationship clear by adding a phrase such as 'my boss,' 'my wife' or 'my uncle.' In the case of unmarried couples who are living together, 'companion' and 'partner' are good choices.
Step5
Use your spouse's first and last name if he or she has a different last name than you. Include the phrase 'my wife' or 'my husband.'
Step6
Introduce an individual to the group first, then the group to the individual. For example: 'Dr. Brown, I'd like you to meet my friends Kym Hsu, Shawn Kampbell and Michael Via. Everyone, this is Dr. Kurt Brown.'

Tips & Warnings

  • If you've forgotten a name, you'll seem impolite if you try to ignore the need for the introduction. It's less awkward (and better manners) to apologize and acknowledge that the name has escaped you.
  • If your host neglects to introduce you to other guests, feel free to introduce yourself, but make your relationship to the host clear in your introduction.
  • Formal etiquette censures repeating names and adding phrases such as 'charmed' and 'a pleasure,' as it may appear insincere or detract from the introduction. Instead, offer a friendly 'Hello,' or 'Gertrude has told me so much about you.'

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on 8/8/2006 Never shake hands with sweaty palms. To avoid sweaty hands, wash them with antibacterial soap and warm water; use translucent talc or light powder for sever sweat. Pay attention to International Protocol because some cultures dislike physical contact, even hand shakes. Allow at least 2 to 4 feet distance for comfortable conversations.

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on 11/22/2005 You always introduce others to the President of the United States, not the other way around:
"Suzy Smith, allow me to introduce you to the President of the United States." or "Mr. President, may I present my wife Suzy Smith?"

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on 11/22/2005 If you've forgotten someones name, and they're coming toward you, ask your husband to introduce himself by stating the persons name. The forgotten one is compelled to say theirs, then you can chime in with the title, or relationship. Husband: "Hello, I'm Josey's husband John Doe" (offers hand in hand shake),Forgotten Name: "Hi, I'm David Hasselhoff"...Josey:"Darrin, this is my colleague from work, great to see you David." This works every time. My hubby is trained now.

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on 11/22/2005 If you forget someone's name, ask them to introduce themselves.

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on 11/22/2005 Although it may seem like a good idea to mention something in particular the two people have in common, this can also make them feel like they have to talk about that right away. Once you have done your part, let your introducees strike up their own conversation and establish themselves.

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