How to Tell One's Boyfriend He's a Bad Kisser

No matter how great your boyfriend, if he's a bad kisser, that can put a big damper on the whole relationship. You may be wondering how you are going to tell him without hurting his feelings. Follow these steps to let your boyfriend know that he's a bad kisser and needs improvement in a tactful way.

Instructions

1. Decide whether you really want to come out and tell your boyfriend that he's a bad kisser or if you would prefer to try to retrain him. You may be able to teach him the way you prefer to kiss.

2. Suggest that the two of you try a new kissing technique about which you read. Tell your boyfriend that you think that both of you need to work to improve your kissing.

3. Tell your boyfriend to let you show him the way you would like him to kiss you. Tell him not to do anything except follow your lead and do what you do.

4. Make a light joke about the situation if he just doesn't seem to get the hint, but give him a compliment first. For example, you should playfully say, "You have really soft lips, so can you use just a little less tongue so that I can feel your lips more?"

5. Ask your boyfriend if there are any new kisses he would like to try out or if there is anything that he would like you to do differently. He may have some useful suggestions too.

Tips & Warnings

• Don't wait too long before you tell your boyfriend that his kissing technique needs to change.

• Don't insult your boyfriend or say anything that might make him suspect that you think he's a completely gross kisser.