How to Flirt With Body Language
Research shows that the most effective way to flirt is with body language. So whether you're single and looking for love or attached and wanting to spice up a relationship, read on and learn how you can send the right signals without ever saying a word.
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Instructions
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Make eye contact without glaring or staring. For instance, if you're a man who wants a lady's attention, look at her, make visual contact, glance away, then make eye contact again. Based on this interaction, you should get an overall feeling of whether she's interested or not.
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Face the person with whom you wish to flirt. Make sure you point your feet toward the object of your interest. If you're a woman, cross your legs with your knees toward the man.
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Flip, toss or twirl your hair gently and subtly, if you're a woman. This is classic flirtatious body language.
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Brush off your clothes or run your hands over your hair, if you're a man. This communicates to the woman that you care about your appearance and want to look good for her.
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Lean your upper body slightly toward the person. Men sometimes lean with their arms or shoulders prominently displayed to show their masculinity and strength. Women often lean forward with their arms close to their chests to enhance their cleavage. This type of body language clearly demonstrates your interest.
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Touch the person with whom you're flirting gently without grasping, stroking or groping. You can do this nonchalantly during conversation. For instance, lightly touch the other person's arm for a moment when you tell a joke or make a point.
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Tips & Warnings
Make sure you don't invade someone's personal space. This is a major turnoff and can extinguish the spark.
