How to Get a Boyfriend to Pay Less Attention to His Friends

The worst feeling comes from having a boyfriend who spends all his time with his friends and doesn't pay much attention to you. Instead of focusing on the lack in your relationship, realize that you deserve a caring partner. Take these steps to become a person he wants to be with. You may find that you don't miss or need the attention after all.

Instructions

1. Find time to do hobbies and activities you enjoy. If they are ones that boys enjoy, all the better. When you fill your time this way, you are too busy to suffer from lack of attention from your boyfriend. Boys are attracted to independent spirits.

2. Take care of yourself. Eat well and get to sleep on time so that your face doesn't break out and you don't get dark circles under your eyes. Enjoy the glow that comes from being healthy-others will notice too.

3. Focus on the "friend" aspect of being a girlfriend. Boys like girls they can talk to comfortably. If you don't like talking to your boyfriend, consider moving on.

4. Analyze jealous feelings and what triggers them. Realize others don't have the power to "make" you feel a certain way-that is totally under your control. Find ways to increase your self confidence.

5. Accept that your boyfriend wants to spend time with his friends. Don't get in the habit of dropping your friends as soon as you're in a relationship-they are more likely to be there for you for the long run. Find friends you like to be with and make time for them; you'll find that your boyfriend misses you.