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Step 1
Keep it simple. If it's her fortieth and you know she'd love her sisters and best friends to be there, send a group email with the suggestion of an abroad get-together. Because of the occasion and the location, more people will agree than you think.
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Step 2
The guest list will be small (likely under 10), so plan a dinner party either at the hotel where you are staying or at a restaurant nearby. Putting an event planner in charge of this takes the detail work out of your hands. Make sure the planner knows her favorite flowers, wine and dessert for the celebration.
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Step 3
The guests and the party are taken care of, so the rest is easy. Your spouse will think you are taking her to a birthday dinner; not knowing her crew is in town will blow her mind!
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Step 4
Make sure you thank those who made the trip. A hand-written thank-you card to each guest would be sincere and appreciated.
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Step 5
Plan a breakfast or happy hour before the guests leave to go back home so you all can get together again to compare notes about your trip.












