How to Become Friends With a Guy

Having a relationship with a guy doesn't mean that it has to be romantic. It's possible to be friends with a guy and leave it at just that. Take a step outside of your comfort zone to get this relationship started. Don't lay it on too heavily, or the guy may get the wrong idea. Work slowly, and play it cool while in the process of forming your new relationship. Read on to learn how to become friends with a guy.

Instructions

1. Introduce yourself to him. Go someplace where you know you can find him, like a party, football game or other activity. Wait until he is alone, and then go say hello.

2. Talk to him. Find out what his interests are and what things you have in common. Make conversation and not just small talk.

3. Be friends with his friends. Make a point to invite him and his friends to do things with your group of friends. Keep activities low key and fun. Avoid couples pairing up, so he doesn't feel like your are pursuing him romantically.

4. Be nice to him. Avoid cutting comments and insults, even when just joking around. Flatter him, and pay him compliments when due.

5. Learn to play football or another sport that he and his friends are interested in. Ask him teach you and your friends if he's willing. Play pick up games, and then go out to eat afterwards.

6. Relax, have fun and be yourself. Be natural and avoid being superficial. Enjoy hanging out, and let your hair down. Guys enjoy being around girls who are comfortable and confident with themselves.