Things You'll Need:
- Glasses
- Beverages
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Step 1
If you are asked in advance of an event to give a toast, plan carefully what you will say and rehearse it beforehand. Keep it brief and on subject--shoot for no more than one minute in length. Then memorize it. If you are offering a toast on the spur of the moment, keep it very simple: “To our guest of honor, Dan. May your retirement be filled with all the relaxation and fishing you’ve been dreaming of.”
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Step 2
Choose ahead of time whether you will sit or stand to offer the toast. Either is acceptable, so choose what best fits the situation. To remain seated at a dinner party of six makes sense, but if you’d like to create a more formal atmosphere do stand up. At a reception for a large group, you’ll be more likely to get everyone’s attention and be heard by standing up.
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Step 3
Make sure everyone has a drink and that glasses are filled before you begin your toast. If a large group is assembled, ask friends to spread out let people know there will soon be a toast. If there’s a wait staff, let them know so they can offer refills or set out champagne. Everyone should have a glass to participate in the toast, but drinks need not be alcoholic.
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Step 4
Get the group’s attention by standing up--if that's what you've chosen to do--and saying: “Your attention, please,” or “I’d like to make a toast.” Give them time to focus on you.
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Step 5
Face the person you’re honoring. Look directly at her and begin speaking. If your toast involves a story about her told to the rest of the group, look around the room as you speak. As your complete your remarks, look the honoree in the eye, raise your glass and say “To Sarah.” Then take a sip. The rest of the group should follow along.
