How to Buy a Tuxedo Cummerbund

A cummerbund is a wide wrist sash, often pleated, that is worn with a tuxedo. Traditionally, a cummerbund was worn with the pleats facing up to hold theater tickets, or as you probably heard as a child, to catch crumbs. Nowadays, cummerbunds are usually decorative and come in a huge variety of patterns and colors.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

1. Stick to the basics by buying one accessories set that includes a black cummerbund and bow tie to wear with your tuxedo. This allows you to always match your date, no matter what she's wearing.

2. Match your cummerbund to your date's gown for prom and other events. This is not a requirement, but basic black is always better than choosing a clashing color. In a wedding, you may want to buy cummerbunds that match the dresses of the bridesmaids or flower girls.

3. Buy a brocade cummerbund to add a touch of personal style while still maintaining a level of formality. A brocade cummerbund usually does not have pleats, but they do come pleated as well. Either version is appropriate for most events.

4. Avoid patterns or designs on your cummerbund for formal events, especially if the invitation says "white tie." While you may find the cummerbund printed with a beach scene hilarious, your date and host may not.

5. Wear a crazy cummerbund with a formal bow tie or a bold bow tie with a formal cummerbund, but never both. A matching set, other than in a solid color, looks contrived and goes overboard. You can have fun while wearing a tuxedo without stepping across the line into ridiculousness. Solid-colored cummerbunds and ties should always match.

6. Try on the cummerbund before you buy it. Most cummerbunds, especially those in a set, come in one size that is adjustable. This may not work for you if you are remarkably thick or thin. You may need a child's size or an extra large to get a better fit.

Tips & Warnings

• A cummerbund is required when wearing a single-breasted jacket. The jacket should be worn unbuttoned.
• If you are looking to buy a cummerbund for an Irish or Indian dancing outfit, you can buy a plain cummerbund and sew the proper scroll or decals.
• Don't forget to buy suspenders. A belt should never be worn with a tuxedo, so suspenders are necessary to hold your pants up, even if you are wearing a cummerbund to hide your waistline.
• Consider skipping the cummerbund if you are on the heavy side. A vest will look more slimming.