By
eHow Holidays & Celebrations Editor
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Send invites you made by yourself. This saves time and makes your invitation more personal. Hand deliver your invitations to your friends and family. Make cute invitations out of old fashioned fly swatters you buy at a hardware store. Draw a fly or lady buy on construction paper, cut and tape it to the fly swatter. Attach a piece of paper to the handle of the fly swatter with the barbecue information on it.
Step2
Keep the menu simple. If you're having a barbecue make sure you have plenty of food to cook on the grill. Buy easy items like hot dogs, bratwursts, hamburgers and chicken. Finish off an easy Memorial Day barbecue with a few classics like potato salad, coleslaw and fruit salad.
Step3
Mix up some lemonade, but get creative. Make Minted Raspberry Lemonade by adding fresh chopped mint, crushed raspberries and some sugar to your lemonade. For the adults, set up a cocktail bar where your guests can mix their own favorites or make up new ones. Stock the basic hard liquors like vodka, rum, brandy, whiskey, tequila and gin. Give them different fruity flavors to mix with by stocking pitchers of lemonade, orange juice, pineapple juice, cranberry juice, peach or any other flavors you can think of.
Step4
Plan games for the kids and activities for adults too. Kids can play pin the hat on Uncle Sam. Make your own large Uncle Sam drawing and cut a hat out of construction paper. Adults might enjoy a game of croquet, bocce ball or even baseball if you can make a small field in your backyard.
Step5
Make simple decorations like shiny cut out stars and balloons. You could even have a table set up for the kids to make their own decorations to display at the party. Have stars drawn on construction paper or cardboard for the kids to cut out, and use aluminum foil or metallic wrapping paper to wrap them before hanging them up.
Step6
Set up the tunes. A good backyard barbecue needs some background music to keep people entertained. Pick out your favorites or ask guests to bring a long their favorite music and shuffle them in your CD player. Offer a variety of music, and everyone can listen to at least one song they like.