How to Encourage Mother-Daughter Relationship

The mother-daughter bond can be one of the most important relationships in each of their lives. This relationship can help determine so many developmental aspects for the daughter because she looks to her mother as a role model. You can build a healthy mother-daughter relationship at any age.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

For Mothers

1. Listen to each other without criticism. Your daughter should feel free to express her thoughts and feelings, even if they're different from yours. Respecting your daughter will teach her to respect herself, and she'll respect you because of that.
2. Foster independence. Your daughter is her own person, and you should embrace the person that she is.
3. Defy the stereotypes. Teenage girls are sometimes expected to have issues with self esteem, depression and body image. But you do not have to accept that. Teach your daughter her worth and her value and you'll actually have a more meaningful relationship with each other for the rest of your lives.
4. Stay up to date with her activities. If your daughter is still in school, be active in her education and let her know that you hold her to high standards. If your daughter is grown, quiz her about her job and other interests in her life. This will let your daughter know that you love the person she is growing up to be.
5. Compliment your daughter. You frequently think positive thoughts about her, and you should share those with her. This helps build her self esteem, no matter how old she is.
6. Find a mother daughter group, or start one up yourself. Sharing your experiences with other people will give you a fresh outlook on your situation. You'll also find invaluable support during the hard times.
7. Treat yourself. Research shows that you'll be a better mother when you feel better about yourself. Take some time to get your hair done, get a massage or go on a date night.

For Daughters

8. Accept your mother for who she is. She genuinely has your best interest at heart, even though she may sometimes have different opinions than you. Remember that your mother wants the best for you and her intentions are pure.
9. Build friendships with other people your age. If you rely on your mother for everything, you're holding her to standards that she can't live up to. Especially as you get older, there are certain subjects where our mom might not always be the best source of advice. Embrace your independence and seek advice from your friends, as well as your mom. You'll often find that your mom does have the right answer.
10. Set your own goals and ambitions. Search your heart and find where your passion truly lies, then go after it. Your mother will admire your determination and she'll be your biggest fan.