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How to Control Your Gag Reflex

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By Stormylaike
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Open wide and saturate the throat
Open wide and saturate the throat

Are you wondering how to get some mind boggling, satisfying, spectacular throat, or how to give some, without you or your partner gagging? Why do most people gag, and give up hope on orally pleasing their mate? Sometimes they feel it's hopeless. if the object doesn't fit, some feel they must quit!! Well, people, I want you to take an objective point of view when attempting to pleasure and gratify your mate orally.

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • A willing mouth
  • An open mouth
  • A saturated mouth
  • A tooth brush
  • A willingness to want to pleasure your mate
  • Stimulating techniques
  1. Step 1

    First, understand that your gag relex is a relex action. find out where your gag relexes start. Starting from the tip of the tongue, to where you first begin to gag, is how far it stretches. Once you can put a finger on that, (no pun intended) you can begin learning how to control it.

  2. Step 2

    The gag reflex is a contraction at the back of your throat which stops objects entering the throat except as part of normal swallowing. But, you can re train your reflexes, so that your mate will obtain the utmost pleasure. sometimes you may have the feeling of loss of control and panic. Don't panic.. Remember it's training your reflex and tongue to do something different then normally.

  3. Step 3

    Here's how to make it so you never upset your partner by gagging again; You will slightly enhance something you already do everyday! Brush your tongue right where your gag begins. People you will gag. It will be nasty,not for long, but just think of the many compliments you will get! Spend about 10 seconds brushing that area (and gagging), and call it a night.
    Repeat the process over the next few nights in the exact same spot. You'll notice you gag less each time you do it.
    Increase the brushing area. Once you can touch your toothbrush on that spot without gagging, it's time to move the toothbrush further back. Try brushing increasing the brushing behind where your gag used to begin. This is your new starting point. Repeat the process as you did in the first spot.
    Continue moving the brush further. Each time you move the toothbrush back, your gag has been desensitized in the previous spot. Keep moving it further and further back until you've reached the furthest visual point of your tongue.
    Be persistent. This whole process should take approximately a month to complete. When it's all said and done, you should be able to take in more than 6 inches, and an object may reach the back of your throat without you gagging.
    Once you have practiced, keep the lips, and throat moist. Now that you won't gag, your partner will immediately notice the change!
    Remember, practice makes perfect. Don't do something you feel uncomfortable in doing. This is for those wanting to spice up their love life, and make sure they are pleasing to the fullest capacity.

  4. Step 4

    Finally, After controlling your relfex, you can then move to technique. Usually a person can't become good at performance because he hasn't control the gag. The ability to evenly saturate your mouth without any saliva spilling over is what will glorify your partner. Moisture, plus, gag control=Happy partner! But most of all, communication is the key to a good relationship, Use your mouth in every way, that's what is there for!

Tips & Warnings
  • Don't start too far back. It is possible to desensitize a further point in your tongue without first doing the closer part, and this isn't what you're trying to achieve. If you're still gagging a lot after a few times of doing this, you started too far back. Move forward, and try again. Don't do this twice a day, even though you brush your teeth twice a day. Pick either the morning or the evening as your time to try this out. If you don't want to disengage your gag completely, you can always just breathe through your nose to avoid tripping your gag reflex.
  • It may not be medically smart to rid your body of it's natural defense against choking.
  • You should talk with your doctor first before trying this to discuss any medical ramifications that may occur.
  • You will have to re-do the process from time to time, as your reflex will return if you don't.
  • This is recommended for Adults only

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marcy2 said

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on 1/29/2009 i'm only concerned that there will be a higher chance of choking on food after the gag reflex is tamed. - maria

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on 10/27/2008 Very informative. I've always wondered how this was accomplished. My man will thank you for it. lol

moeskito said

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on 8/19/2008 "never upset your partner by gagging again; "

On the other hand, probably just as many members (pun intended) find the gagging flattering. Consensual, gagging says alot. "I must be huge" "damn I am hung" "he/she really likes me wants to please me because even as big as I am they are willing to experience discomfort (gagging) to give me pleasure. Personally, I find gagging pretty darn hot and not upsetting.

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on 10/11/2007 Hi!
can you open your epiglottis? I mean your throat.. so that your partner can stick his lord into your gullet? this sounds weird, but thats usefull if you either want to take in a huge one, or if you want to drink without swallowing, what is a great evidence for women to show some machos what we can!

STARBOURNE said

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on 10/10/2007 This is hott! . Alot of women need to read this , then their men could stop calling me, lol. Good How-to.

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