How to Pick a Roommate
Striking out on your own is one of the first adventures of adulthood. If you are moving away to college or starting an entry level job, you might have no choice but to find someone with whom to split the cost of living. If you find a compatible roommate, you'll have a valuable partner who will makes your life easier. Choose wrong and you'll end up like Oscar and Felix.
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Think about what you want from a roommate. Some people need a person to split the bills; others want a friend and partner to share meals and hang out. Having these preferences in mind can help you find a compatible roommate.
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Be honest about your living habits. There's nothing wrong with being a slob, a neat freak or anything in between; provided, of course, that you share a living space with somebody who has your same preferences. The same goes for things like bed times and noise levels.
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Make a list of qualities you seek in a roommate, as well as a list of things you absolutely cannot stand. Compile your soul searching into an easily accessible questionnaire of sorts. For a harmonious relationship, you should be looking for somebody whose lifestyle is similar to your own.
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Interview prospective candidates in person. Though time pressures may tempt you to make do with email and phone contact, it is essential that you sit down and chat face to face. That way, you get a sense of how comfortable you would feel seeing that face every day.
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Ask probing, rather than pointed questions, when talking to a prospective roommate. By using tact you are more likely to get an honest answer about somebody's personal habits. Inquiring generally about work, hobbies and other lifestyle-related question should give you the information you need.
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Get references before making a final decision. The steps to find a compatible roommate are much like those for choosing a reliable employee. A good word from past roommates and landlords can help give you a fuller picture of the candidate's personality. Since you are relying on this person to share bills, a credit check might also be in order.
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