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Step 1
Get his phone number. If he only gives you his cell phone, be cautious. He may only have a cell phone--or he may have a home phone but doesn't want his wife to answer your call. Does he answer his cell phone when he is with you? If not, he may be very considerate--or he may be ducking calls from his wife.
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Step 2
Ask to see his home. If he never takes you, he may be embarrassed to admit he still lives with his parents or that he lives like a slob--or that he lives with his wife and maybe even kids.
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Step 3
Make plans for holiday and weekend outings. If he is never available on holidays and weekends he may be a doctor, firefighter or policeman--or he may be spending the holidays with his wife and children.
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Step 4
Watch how he pays for your nights out. If he only pays in cash, he may have no credit--or he may not want his wife to see your dates on their credit card statements.
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Step 5
Check out his car. Empty juice boxes, crushed crackers and stuffed animals means he's had children in it recently. He may have children with an ex-wife or ex-girlfriend--or he may be married. Did he mention he had children in the first place?
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Step 6
Look in his wallet for a place where it seems he has removed a photograph. He may have thrown out a photo of his ex-girlfriend--or he may be hiding a photo of his family. Be especially wary if it seems several photos are missing.
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Step 7
Ask to meet his parents and friends. If he won't introduce you, he may be embarrassed to be seen with you--or he may be married. Did other boyfriends introduce you to friends and family? If so, then you are not the reason.
