How to Make Someone Your Partner in Second Life

Imagine a marriage where the two people never get on each other's nerves, never fight over the covers and miraculously never lose their looks. Residents of the Second Life virtual world declare that they have everything real life has--homes, businesses, entertainment, friends--only it's easier and more fun. Two avatars whose animated hearts pound every time they text-message each other can publicly declare themselves to be partners, the Second Life version of marriage. Here's how.

Things You'll Need

• Second Life Client download
• Linden dollars (L$), the virtual currency used in Second Life
• Computer with Internet access via DSL or cable modem

Instructions

1. Join the Second Life community if you haven't already done so. Visit the Web site's home page and establish a membership (see the Resources section below). You will find all the facts regarding membership, as well as the forms to fill out and access to the download.

2. Chat with as many people as possible in Second Life's diverse international population. Simply type your messages into the "Chat" box.

3. Add individuals to your "Friends" list and have them add you to theirs, so that you can keep track of each other and go to parties and events together.

4. Single out someone whose company you enjoy--only if you want to. In Second Life, unlike real life, marriage is the exception rather than the rule, so you don't have to select a partner.

5. "Propose" to the person via a proposal form. Type "partner" into the tech support knowledge base search box to find the form (see Resources below).

6. Confirm that you can afford the cost of designating a partner, 10 Linden dollars (L$). The money comes out of your account when you complete the proposal form.

7. Dissolve a partnership (virtual divorce) if things don't work out. Fill out another form and pay L$25 to make it official.

Tips & Warnings

• Your partnership status shows up on the profile people see when they right-click your avatar.

• Don't let your avatar stray too far from your natural personality. It is difficult to maintain, and you never know with whom you can "be yourself" if you don't behave like yourself.

• Do not give out personal information, such as your address or phone number--it is important that you do not compromise your privacy.

• Being "married" to someone you have never seen may seem fun, but it does not take the place of a real relationship. Don't let Second Life keep you from maintaining family ties and seeking friends in the real world.