Things You'll Need:
- Champagne
- Personal Organizers
- Candles
- Postage Stamps
- Champagne Glasses
- Sparkling Cider
- Champagne Buckets
- Wedding Shower Invitations
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Step 1
Ask for the bride's and groom's input before planning their couples shower. Develop the guest list with their help, remembering that all shower guests should also be invited to the wedding.
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Step 2
Select a date and time that will be convenient for couples. A Friday or Saturday evening affair or a Sunday afternoon barbecue may be the best bet.
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Step 3
Consider a location other than your home. Restaurants and public parks are good choices, especially if you cannot accommodate a lot of people in your home or backyard.
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Step 4
Choose a theme. While an elegant tea is not out of the question, create an atmosphere in which men will feel comfortable and have fun.
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Step 5
Decide whether you want formal or casual dress. Bear in mind that most people enjoy dressing down, especially on a weekend. Indicate "casual" or "dressy" on the invitation.
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Step 6
Plan a menu. A party with wine and appetizers may be appropriate, or you can arrange for a catered dinner, deli sandwiches or a full-scale outdoor cookout. A potluck affair will be easiest for you and will allow everyone to contribute.
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Step 7
Decide whether you want to play games or not. If so, try to come up with games that will involve the men without seeming too corny.
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Step 8
Consider the gift-opening segment of the party. While men might be interested in the groom's gifts, they might also become bored. Provide alternatives such as a sports event on TV or an outdoor activity.
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Step 9
Try to limit the shower to a couple of hours. To avoid people lingering far beyond your expectations, include both a starting and ending time on the invitation.


















Comments
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Anonymous said
on 9/21/2006 My sister and bridesmaids are throwing us a BBQ/pig roast as our couples shower. Our wedding is out of state, and this will give everyone that isn't able to come to the wedding the opportunity to see us. We are doing a very casual Saturday afternoon with beer and wine, horseshoes and an evening bonfire for the stragglers (our attendants).
Anonymous said
on 8/8/2006 I threw a Gift Card Couple's Shower for my friends at our favorite college bar. Most of the guests went to college together, so we decided to have a fun night reliving the old days! It was so cheap and fun! First drinks were free to everyone, and we had a deli and vegetable tray. We just hung out the whole evening and did a little bar hopping. Both the couple and the guests loved the gift card idea because it was easy!
Anonymous said
on 6/11/2007 My husband hated the idea of having to attend a shower - so I changed the name to a Prenuptial Party -- It became an instant hit.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 An aunt and uncle hosted a wine shower for us and it was a huge success. The theme was Stock the Cellar, and the invitation asked each guest or couple to bring 2 bottles of wine that they thought we would enjoy. We went home with over 50 bottles of wine. Other guests added to the theme by giving us wine racks, wine glasses, bottle openers, glass markers and bottle stoppers. The gift table at the shower was a big hit. Guests enjoyed looking through the variety of wines and discussing their favorites. The party was a blast and the wine helped us get through those last hectic weeks before the wedding. ;)