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eHow Relationships & Family Editor
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Things You’ll Need:
Step1
Think about when and where you want to tell her. Is there a special place you want to be? A certain day? For example, you might want to tell her at the restaurant where you went on your first date, or on the two-month or nine-month anniversary of your first date.
Step2
Set the mood and be romantic. Buy her flowers or a romantic gift.
Step3
Look at her directly, take her hand and tell her how positive you feel about her. Give her examples of things you really like about her. Be sincere.
Step4
Tell her how you feel being with her, and how much you enjoy your time together. Be specific about what you value and appreciate about being with her.
Step5
Follow these positive statements with telling her you love her in whatever way feels best for you. For example: "I feel I've come to love you," "I realize I love you," "I feel so much love for you," "I've fallen in love with you," or simply, "I love you."
Comments
jjmess said
on 2/1/2008 For more about Valentine's Day why not drop in and visit me and my friends at our love and relationship thread on the forum pages: http://www.ehow.com/community/forums/topic_33827_valentine’s-day:-in-love?-broken-hearted?-alone?-how-do-you-deal?.aspx
badstorm said
on 6/28/2007 it's so hard to look in her eyes ! and tell her, i feel i want but i can't !
sophielee said
on 6/9/2007 I agree that "Love is not hormones or passion or kissing or sex. Love is the million little things that you do." Firstly,ask yourself seriously if you really love her,and if you can keep this feeling for a long time.If your heart say " Yes,I DO." Then,you tell her sincerely.
sophielee said
on 6/9/2007 I agree that "Love is not hormones or passion or kissing or sex. Love is the million little things that you do." Firstly,ask yourself seriously if you really love her,and if you can keep this feeling for a long time.If your heart say " Yes,I DO." Then,you tell her sincerely.
womaninlife said
on 4/1/2007 I came to this site to inquire about how long into a relationship love usually strikes. I am a 33 year old woman. I have been in a relationship for a short time. I have known him 2 months, but our active dating time has only been about half that. He is intoxicating. I know the newness of these things can blind a person so I long to see clearly, however I can't imagine anyone ever comparing to him. I didn't get what I came for by reading comments on this site, but if your a man and you have done to a woman what this man has to me, please let her know, even if without telling her you love her, that you plan on sticking around. Then, when the dust of new companionship settles, if love is truely present, tell her. There can be no one specific way that is right for recommending, just make it special. If you are in love, you can't go wrong. Best wishes and good luck in this roller coaster chapter of life and may she love you back as much as you deserve.