Signs That Your Husband Is Having an Affair
Granted, no single sign proves that your husband is cheating---but if several of these behaviors are cropping up at the same time or have been occurring for a lengthy period, it may be time to start asking questions.
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Money
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Your husband suddenly wants to start handling the bills, or paying for all his purchases in cash, or he keeps credit card statements and receipts from you to hide money he's spent.
Computer
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He has suddenly started spending more time on the computer, checking email, instant messaging or entering chat rooms. He deletes the Web browser's history so you can't tell where he's been, and he shuts off the computer when you're in the room.
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Time
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His time with you and your family becomes very limited. His excuses include working late, going to the gym more (but he's not losing any weight) or running errands (with vague explanations of those errands).
Cell Phone
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His cell phone behavior changes. He starts talking on the phone more, there are long phone calls on the phone bill or numbers you don't recognize, he leaves the room to talk or he hangs up when you enter the room.
Emotions
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Your husband may start becoming more affectionate, considerate and amorous to cover his tracks. Conversely, he may become withdrawn and distant and show a marked lack of interest in having sex with you.
Home
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He's cleaned up after he's been alone in the house (he may have cleaned to hide something): a bed has been remade, the shower or toothbrushes have been used, there are used condoms in the trash can (or the trash has been taken out) or the window shades are down when they are usually up.
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