Funeral Flower Etiquette
How you present funeral flowers and the type of flowers you send to a funeral depends on the family and the religious aspects of the service. When you choose to send flowers to a funeral, you should be aware of any religious preference, the wishes of the family and how the flowers should be delivered.
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Religious Preference
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Many religions see funeral flowers as an expression of love and condolences for the family. Hindus funerals do not have flowers as part of the funeral tradition, but it would be seen as a gesture of love if they were sent. Mormon funerals accept flowers as a gesture of love and caring, but don't accept flower crosses. Judaism does not receive flowers at the time of a death, but you could send a flower arrangement to the home of a family member after the funeral. Other religions do accept flowers as part of the funeral tradition.
Family Wishes
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Some families will specify that you don't send flowers, but instead contribute to a memorial fund. Many people will sent a small flower arrangement and give a gift of money to the memorial fund as well. You can send flowers to the home of a family member if you feel that the family is strict about no flowers at the funeral.
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Flower Delivery
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The florist should deliver the flowers to the funeral. Most florists will know the delivery instructions for the specific funeral home or church. Don't bring a flower arrangement with you to the funeral.
Size of Flower Arrangement
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The family usually has larger flower arrangements for each side of the casket. Your flower arrangement should be smaller so it does not take away from the families arrangements. Green plants are popular for funerals because family members can take the plants home and keep them for a long time.
The Card
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With each flower arrangement, a card should be sent. It should say whom the flowers are from and to whom the flowers are for.
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