By
eHow Parties & Entertaining Editor
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Things You’ll Need:
- Invitations
- Floral Arrangements
- Scented Candles
- Ice
- Liquor
- Nonalcoholic Drinks
- Cocktail Glasses
- Cocktail Sets
- Cocktail Shaker
- Table Linens
- Folding Chairs
Step1
Send out written invitations for large and formal affairs, telephone or e-mail for smaller ones. Include the nature of the party (cocktails); the occasion, if any; the date, and the beginning and ending times of the party ' cocktail parties are generally between 6 and 8 p.m.
Step2
Make arrangements for a caterer and bartender if your party will be large (over 25 people), and your budget permits. Otherwise, prepare a cocktail menu and plan out how you will prepare everything ahead of time. (See Related eHows for appetizer ideas.)
Step3
For drinks, plan to have wine and beer, as well as supplies for several kinds of cocktails. Have nonalcoholic alternatives on hand as well, and be sure you'll have enough ice.
Step4
Remove large pieces of furniture or clutter from the room you plan to hold the party in. Set up two large tables - one for drinks, the other for hors d'oeuvres - a good distance from each other or at opposite ends of the room, to cut down on traffic around them.
Step5
Set up chairs and smaller tables around the room. Comfortable folding chairs and tables are adequate and easy to move around.
Step6
Decorate with table linens, candles and simple floral arrangements. The complexity of the arrangements and quality of the linens should reflect the formality of the event.
Step7
Ask your guests for their coats as soon as they enter and hang the coats on a coat rack, in a coat closet or lay coats across a bed in an unused bedroom.
Step8
Tell your guests to help themselves to hors d'oeuvres. If there is no bartender, ask your guests what they would like to drink and serve them yourself.
Step9
Have a few party games up your sleeve to break the ice and encourage your guests to mingle.
Comments
giddygastronome said
on 6/10/2008 Please do not think me presumptious, but I could so fill the position as the caterer LOL!!. Nothing is worth having without effort and an infinite culinary vision.
giddygastronome.
banquetmanager said
on 6/2/2008 I think it would help to mention that whether or not there is an "official bartender", the host is liable for an guest that becomes intoxicated. The law states that "no intoxicated person shall be served liquor". Most people are not really qualified to judge when someone is intoxicated, even me a banquet manager with 10 years experience. We must always be aware.
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Ladybugblue said
on 5/11/2008 Its nice to have a step by step for a party! Good ideas!
parvenue said
on 4/1/2008 I love this article. Very thoughtful and informative. I love the part about "table linens" nice touch. Thanks.
parvenue said
on 4/1/2008 What a lovely article! I really enjoyed reading it. I like the nice touches regarding table linens and non-alcoholic drinks! What a treat! Thanks.