What Is an Appropriate Wedding Gift?

Wedding gifts symbolize your celebration of the marriage of your friends. Being appropriate in your gift choice shows that you respect the couple on their special day. This is never the time for gag gifts or practical jokes, even if you think someone would appreciate it.

What Is An Appropriate Wedding Gift?

The best possible gift is something from the couple's wedding gift registry. You might think it's not personal or creative, but think of a child's Christmas list. It's what they really want or need. The couple should respect their guests and register gifts in several price ranges.

What If They Are Not Registered?

Think of things you might put on a wedding registry and go from there. Unless registered and specified, don't choose a china place setting or stemware at random. Stick to small appliances that are fun, like ice cream makers and fondue sets. Whatever you select, shop at a major retailer that has a flexible return policy in case the couple doesn't like the gift.

What If I'm Short On Money?

Make a gift to save on costs. If you are a crafter or scrapbooker, you'll already have lots of ideas, so don't hesitate to do them. If you are creative with words, write a short story or poem about your friends. If you sing or play an instrument, ask the couple if you can help by performing at the ceremony or reception. If you feel you can't contribute in a creative way, choose a useful but inexpensive gift such as a set of BBQ tools, kitchen gadgets or a couple extra-large fluffy towels.

Are Gift Cards and Cash Tacky?

Gift cards and cash are perfectly acceptable gifts. The only problem with giving gift cards or cash is that it can be difficult to choose a specific dollar amount that you want to give. Make sure the gift card is for a place where household items can be purchased. When giving cash, do present it in an appropriate card.

Do I Send The Gift or Bring It?

If you choose from the registry, it will be simple to have the gift sent, usually for a fee. Bringing the gift to the wedding reception is also acceptable. An old-school rule is still in place: Technically, you have one year from the date of the wedding to send a gift, so you can take your time choosing or making a gift.