How to Make a Nice but Not Expensive Birthday for Your Husband

Serve breakfast in bed to start his day with a smile.

Your husband is the man who takes care of you, so what better time than his birthday to make him feel valued and loved? Just a little forward planning will make his birthday one to remember for all the right reasons. You know him best, so you will know whether he would prefer to celebrate with just the two of you or if he would be happy to have friends or family at his celebration. Either way, get planning and make his day extra special.

Things You'll Need

• Breakfast tray
• Eggs, Bacon, Hash-browns,Tomatoes, Pancakes, Coffee, Juice
• Table decorations
• Pre-prepared meal
• Birthday cake
• Candles
• Massage oil
• Child minder if appropriate

Instructions

1. Prepare a tray of his favorite breakfast and take it to him in bed. Sizzling bacon and freshly prepared eggs with all the extras he likes are the perfect way his birthday in the best possible way. Include a glass of freshly squeezed juice and hot coffee. Add a flower to the tray and take any birthday cards that have arrived in the mail to create a celebratory feel.

2. Treat him to his favorite hobby. You know what he would really like to do, whether its sitting in the den with a good book, rollerblading with the kids or going to the gym. So book that round of golf with his best buddy or arrange a morning fishing trip. This is about him and what he enjoys.

3. Arrange a play date for the kids at a friend's house so you have some time alone. Run him a relaxing bath, don't forget to scrub his back for him. Treat him to a sensuous body massage. Warm the massage oil and allow him to lie back and enjoy as you work the oil into his back and legs. Remember to place towels on the bed so the oil does not dirty your sheets.

4. Invite friends and family for a birthday dinner, or prepare an intimate dinner for two. If inviting friends, ask them to bring a a contribution to the meal. This will free up your time in the kitchen. Set the table with your best linen and china or with a party theme. Either way, make it look special by adding little touches such as fresh flowers or birthday napkins.

5. Bring out the cake. No matter how old you are, a birthday cake with candles is still a treat. It can be a huge sugary confection to share, or a small indulgent treat just for him. Make a fuss of him as he blows out the candles and makes a wish.

6. End the evening with gift opening and a big hug as you remind him how much he is loved.

Tips & Warnings

• Prepare in advance. For example you can prepare his birthday meal in advance, or plan to dine out so you have more time on the big day.

• Get the kids involved with making birthday banners or table settings.

• Try to remember that his interests are not always the same as yours. Your idea of a great evening might be to invite your parents and family over, but he may prefer to spend time with you alone or with his best friends.