How to Congratulate Someone
From a new job to a new baby, a winning game to an impending graduation, opportunities to congratulate friends and family present themselves quite frequently. Determine the appropriate time and way to give someone a much-deserved pat on the back.
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Instructions
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Send a congratulatory card or email immediately if you won't be seeing the recipient in person for awhile. Write a heartfelt letter that details your history together and your pride in her accomplishment.
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Tailor your gift to the recipient. If it's not an occasion (like a new baby or graduation) that has an array of customary gifts, select something based on his personality, favorites or hobbies. When you're at a loss, flowers or a restaurant gift certificate are always appropriate.
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Let your relationship with the person determine the extent of your congratulations. If a new co-worker gets her Master's Degree, a simple card would be more appropriate than an extravagant gift, for example.
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Throw a party if a relative or good friend is celebrating a major occasion like an anniversary, engagement or retirement. Allow him to participate in the planning to ensure the date is convenient for him and that he approves of the guest list, meal and activities.
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Tips & Warnings
When it comes to congratulating someone for winning an event you've lost swallow your pride and be gracious. Shake his hand, smile and offer congratulations without going overboard, which may make you sound sarcastic.
Don't throw a party or make a big announcement for an occasion such as a pregnancy unless the person is ready to share the news with other family and friends.